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Are you tired of feeling like you're the problem in your own relationship?
Do you constantly walk on eggshells, second-guessing your worth, your words, and your reality?
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This isn’t just another self-help book.
Breaking Free is a bold, eye-opening guide that pulls back the curtain on narcissistic abuse and emotional manipulation. It gives you the words for what you’ve felt but couldn’t explain. It shows you the patterns, the red flags, and most importantly—it shows you the way out.

Written with clarity, compassion, and personal insight, this book is for every survivor who’s ready to stop questioning themselves and start reclaiming their power.

Why is this a must-have?
Because staying in the dark costs you your peace, your identity, and your future.
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5 Personality Traits All Narcissists Have in Common

 

All Narcissists have these things in common

Narcissism is a word we hear a lot these days—on social media, in conversations about toxic relationships, and even in self-help books. But beyond the buzzword, narcissism is a real psychological condition that affects how a person views themselves and treats others. While not every narcissist is diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), many share a common set of core traits that are easy to spot once you know what to look for.

Whether you’re trying to heal from a past relationship or simply want to understand narcissistic behavior better, here are five personality traits that all narcissists tend to have in common:

1. A Deep Lack of Empathy

One of the most defining features of a narcissist is their inability—or unwillingness—to empathize with others. They struggle to connect with people on an emotional level, and they often dismiss or minimize the feelings of those around them. If someone gets hurt, their first response isn’t concern, but how that situation affects them. This lack of emotional awareness makes healthy relationships incredibly difficult.

2. Grandiosity and Superiority

Narcissists tend to see themselves as superior—more important, more talented, and more deserving than everyone else. They often exaggerate their achievements or embellish stories to appear more successful or powerful. This inflated sense of self-importance isn’t based in reality but rather a defense mechanism to hide insecurity and fragile self-esteem.

3. An Unquenchable Need for Admiration

At the core of narcissism is an insatiable desire for attention and praise. They thrive on admiration, compliments, and being the center of attention. If they’re not constantly being validated, they may become irritable, moody, or even aggressive. This constant need for affirmation often leads them to surround themselves with people who feed their ego.

4. Manipulative and Controlling Behavior

Narcissists are experts at getting what they want, and they often use manipulation to do so. This might look like guilt-tripping, gaslighting, lying, or even love bombing. They’ll charm their way into your life and, before you know it, control your emotions, decisions, and self-worth. Everything becomes a transaction—what they can gain from the relationship is what truly matters to them.

5. A Strong Sense of Entitlement

Narcissists believe they deserve special treatment just because they exist. They expect people to cater to their needs without question and get angry when things don’t go their way. Rules and boundaries? Those are for other people. Their inflated self-view makes them feel above the law—socially, emotionally, and sometimes even legally.

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Final Thoughts

Recognizing these traits can be a powerful first step toward protecting your emotional well-being. Whether it's a romantic partner, a coworker, or a family member, understanding narcissistic behavior helps you set better boundaries and avoid falling into toxic cycles.

If you’ve experienced a relationship with a narcissist, healing takes time—but it begins with awareness. You deserve healthy connections where love, empathy, and mutual respect are the foundation.

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Hear what people are saying about " Breaking Free: How to recognise and escape a Narcissistic relationship

 

Testimonials are important; From where to get the best Pizza in Manhattan? To which personal trainer gets these love handles off the fastest?

People decide to get a particular  product of service notjust based on their own personal search alone but also based on the testimony of others.

Even in the Bible testimonials helps us overcome the wicked one (Revelations 12:11). A lot of research  and personal experience went into this book, and with the many people worldwide who are actually suffering from bad relationships due to Borderline Personality Disorders (BPD), and even narcissism. You cannot afford, as a man or woman in the dating pool not to have this book.

Most people think that just stating what they want in a relationship is sufficient. It is not. The cognitive rationale of each individual comes into play here. The view of relationships in general, their view of love, the role of males and females within the relationship etc. a Narcissist and even the avoidant will be quite selfish in their cognitive view of each of these elements.

In other words this book is more important to each of us, more than we know.

Hear how "Breaking free" is impacting others:-

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Freedom Isn’t Just a Choice — It’s a Journey

 We often hear the word freedom tossed around like it’s a switch you can flip — a single decision that instantly changes everything. But real freedom, the kind that transforms your soul, doesn’t happen in a moment. It unfolds over time, through struggle, tears, setbacks, and small victories. That’s why I wrote the line:

“Freedom isn’t just a choice. It’s a journey.”

This quote isn’t just a catchy line from my book Breaking Free! — it’s a truth I lived.

🧠 Escaping Isn’t Enough

Leaving a toxic relationship doesn’t mean you’re free. I’ve walked out of doors still carrying invisible chains: guilt, self-doubt, trauma, the haunting echo of someone else’s voice telling me I wasn’t enough.

And maybe you’ve been there too — finally breaking away, only to realize the real work begins after you leave.

That’s the journey I’m talking about.

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💡 Healing Is a Process

Freedom means:

• Relearning how to love yourself

• Rebuilding your boundaries

• Rediscovering your purpose

• Reclaiming your voice

In Breaking Free!, I guide readers through identifying narcissistic behavior, understanding the spiritual and emotional traps of these relationships, and most importantly — how to walk the long road of healing.

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🔥 From Surviving to Thriving

True freedom shows up in your thoughts, your choices, your peace. It's in how you protect your energy, how you treat yourself, and how you show up in the world.

It’s not a final destination. It’s a path you walk every day with courage and grace.

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💬 Final Thoughts

If this quote spoke to something inside you, take it as a sign — not just to choose freedom, but to commit to the journey it requires.

📚 You can get your copy of Breaking Free! and start your healing process with guidance, faith, and truth as your compass.

Because you don’t just deserve freedom.
You deserve the life that comes with it.

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Attached and Secure: The ultimate guide to Healthy Relationships (Book b...

About the Book

Attached & Secure: The Ultimate Guide to Healthy Relationships is a transformative guide for anyone ready to break free from toxic relationship cycles and build deep, lasting emotional connections. Written by Desborne O’Neil, a passionate voice in personal growth and emotional healing, this book dives into the powerful world of attachment theory—explaining how your early life experiences shape the way you love, connect, and relate today.

Whether you identify with anxious, avoidant, or disorganized attachment patterns, this book offers clarity, compassion, and practical steps to help you move toward a secure attachment style. Through real-life insights, reflective exercises, and proven strategies, Attached & Secure empowers you to understand your emotional needs, communicate with confidence, and create healthier, more secure relationships—with others and with yourself.

Perfect for singles, couples, or anyone on a healing journey, this book is not just a guide—it’s your personal roadmap to love, security, and emotional freedom.

Get to learn more about this life changing book that will soon become every person's personal textbook on relationships

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How Applying Biblical Wisdom Can Revolutionize Your Life: 3 Books to Read by Desborne O'Neil

 

One of the wisest man who ever lived made this quote:-

    "Wisdom is the principle thing; therefore, get wisdom and in all thy getting, get understanding". In case you didn't know, these are the words of King Solomon, and yes he is or rather was real and his words are forever immortalized in the Bible. The above quote is taken from Proverbs chapter 4 and verse 7, and his words although penned thousand of years ago,  still is very much applicable today, (Ain't that something to think about?).

    Now whether you believe this or not is irrelevant, because the fact of the matter is, if we want to gain knowledge we need to read. Whether it be the news, a column in the latest financial magazine, via a video or audio clip, or as you are reading now, your favorite blog-post, this is how we gain knowledge by reading an experience that someone else had, or an invention that someone made or a new philosophy, or discovery, this is how we gain knowledge.

    The principle reason for us to gain knowledge is so that we can apply it to our lives and so be upgraded, changed in our way of thinking. A mind that remains the same is an underdeveloped mind, a stagnant mind, a mind that will end up being irrelevant because it cannot change to keep up with our ever evolving world.

    If you want to change your mind read. If you want to grow and have your life changed, then read.

    Why not visit your local library or even visit the Kindle store and challenge yourself to upgrade your mind by reading a new book.

    So now that we know what it takes to change our mind. It is not just the reading of itself, but rather the applying of the thoughts and principles laid out in the book.

    For those on a spiritual journey, The Bible, the word of God is fundamental in helping us to achieve that changed life. It first comes by hearing/reading the word, next there is the application of that word, by actively deciding to follow the principles and directions given.

Scientist even agree that once we practice something for at least 14 days it becomes a habit.

    Tired of running around in circles? wanting to change your life for the better? then you will need to read.

    Having said that. If you want to change your life forever, Here are 3 books you can read that will impact you i such a way that your life will never be the same again.

Surviving the Mountain Top

    At any point have you ever pondered, "What am I doing here on the planet?" or "What is my motivation for living?" In the event that your response is indeed, then this book Surviving the Mountain Top is for you. Minister Desborne O'Neil takes his readers on an otherworldly excursion in this splendid show-stopper, and answers many inquiries like; "What do I do since I have achieved my objective? "What to pay special attention to subsequent to making my leap forward?", and other provocative inquiries.

Involving the expression of God through his Holy book (The Bible) as a virtual and otherworldly compass, 'Surviving the Mountain Top' will provide guidance for life's difficulties; support and illumination to both the spirit and soul of every reader, and information for living as God expected it to be.

This is a high priority reflection for each Christian devotee, and for any individual who wants to figure out the significance of life and their motivation in this world, and wants their life changed forever.

You can pick up your very own copy of this great book here.

7 DAYS

    The Beginning variant of the making of the sky and the earth has intrigued and enlivened men through the ages for quite a long time. Its novel portrayal of the monstrous power and shrewdness of an All-powerful God has given many expectation and solace amidst despair. The writer utilizes this remarkable story line to outline the genuine love of God to humanity; An adoration that is all not transient, however timeless the entire moment of each and every hour of each and every day of our lives.

    You will get profound strength for your very lives from the soul of All-powerful God as you read and ponder this reflection and motivating text.

This book will revolutionize and change your life forever Get your very own copy now.

Prophecy

    Prediction or commonly known Prophecy goes into inspecting the essential part of this arm of the five overlay service for example words. The writer here opens up the subject with pin point precision. Realize the reason why words influence us to such an extent. Get a comprehension, a mind opening reason as to why Jesus Christ is known as the expression of God (The Word of God). Prescience is the "Lattice" of philosophy; a must read if you need to grasp the force of words. Get to understand why your own words maybe the reason for things happening in your life, and how you can change it.

If you want your life to change, then only you have the power to do so.

Take action and get a copy of this text today.

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