3 Reasons why we always choose wrong in relationships

Here is the reason why we always choose the wrong people to get married to or be in a relationship with.

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5 reasons why a Print on Demand T-Shirt Business is the best Low-Cost, High-Reward Model to start right now

    

     Hi everyone, hope that all is well on your neck of the woods and that your 2023 financial goals are being realised.

    Although I have been expanding my online income portfolio, this one venture has me very excited, and I trust that it will do the same for you also. I have incorporated  this business model into our local assembly's fund raising ventures and its generating quite a bit of buzz both in our parishioners and  worldwide alike. So exactly what am I referring to here? Its so simple a child can do it. and it is called. P.O.D.

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    So what does P.O.D. stand for? Its the acronym for Print On Demand. and it is a great business model for anyone who has very little to no start up capital available, but would like to earn an income online.

    The Print on Demand (POD) T-shirt business has become increasingly popular in recent years, and for good reason. This type of business allows entrepreneurs to sell custom-designed T-shirts without the need for inventory or upfront costs. In this blog, we will talk about 5 ways a Print on Demand T-shirt business is profitable and why it may be the right choice for your next business venture.

1. Low overhead costs

    One of the primary benefits of a Print on Demand T-shirt business is the low overhead costs. With this model, you don't need to purchase inventory upfront or pay for a physical storefront. This means you can start your business with minimal financial investment and focus on growing your business rather than worrying about overhead costs.

2. Easy to start and scale

    Another advantage of the Print on Demand T-shirt business is that it is easy to start and scale. You don't need any special skills or experience to launch your business, and you can easily scale your business as demand increases. With the help of online marketplaces such as Shopify, Amazon, and Etsy, you can easily set up your online store and start selling T-shirts within a few hours.

3. Customizable designs

    Print on Demand T-shirt businesses offer customers the ability to customize their T-shirts according to their preferences. This customization feature makes the T-shirts more valuable and personalized for the customers, which increases their willingness to pay a higher price. Moreover, with a variety of customization options, such as fonts, colors, and images, you can cater to a wide range of customers and attract a diverse audience.

4. Low-risk business model

    Since Print on Demand T-shirt businesses don't require any inventory or upfront costs, they are a low-risk business model. This means that if your business fails to take off, you won't have to worry about the sunk costs of unsold inventory. Moreover, you can quickly pivot your business and try out new designs without incurring any significant costs.

5. Wide market reach

    Print on Demand T-shirt businesses have a wide market reach due to the rise of e-commerce and online marketplaces. You can easily sell your T-shirts to customers all over the world and cater to a diverse customer base. Additionally, social media platforms such as Instagram and Facebook can help you market your products and reach a wider audience.

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    A Print on Demand T-shirt business is profitable due to its low overhead costs, easy scalability, customizable designs, low-risk business model, and wide market reach. If you're looking to start a profitable business without a significant financial investment, the Print on Demand T-shirt business may be the right choice for you.

7 Nutrient-Dense Breakfast Foods to Jumpstart Your Day

   

     As I got up this morning I was craving some waffle cones with maple syrup and or pancake with butter. Since i had neither in my pantry, it had me thinking, what if I was deliberate in my eating habits? I mean before I consume anything I ask myself the question what will this do to my body? So I started to do my own bit of Sherlock and Watson routine in order to try to unveil what are the best foods that promote a healthy lifestyle for breakfast.

    Here are  7 nutrient -Dense Breakfast foods (Which I unearthed just for you) that are guaranteed to jumpstart your day.

     Breakfast is considered the most important meal of the day, as it helps you to start your day on a healthy and energetic note. Eating the right foods in the morning can provide you with the necessary energy to power through the day, improve your metabolism, and boost your overall health. In this blog, we will discuss the best foods to eat first thing in the morning.

• Oatmeal: Oatmeal is a healthy breakfast option as it is packed with fiber and protein, which can keep you feeling full and satisfied for longer periods of time. It is also rich in vitamins and minerals, including iron, magnesium, and zinc, which can help boost your immune system.

• Eggs: Eggs are an excellent source of protein and can provide you with the energy you need to start your day. They are also rich in essential amino acids, which are important for muscle growth and repair. Additionally, eggs are high in choline, which is essential for brain function and development.

• Greek yogurt: Greek yogurt is an excellent source of protein, calcium, and probiotics, which can help improve digestion and boost your immune system. It is also low in calories and can keep you feeling full for longer periods of time.

• Fruit: Fresh fruits are packed with vitamins, minerals, and fiber, which can help improve your overall health. Fruits such as berries, apples, bananas, and oranges are great options for breakfast as they are low in calories and high in nutrients.

• Nuts and seeds: Nuts and seeds are a great source of healthy fats, fiber, and protein. They can help improve digestion, reduce inflammation, and lower the risk of chronic diseases. Almonds, walnuts, chia seeds, and flaxseeds are some examples of nuts and seeds that can be added to your breakfast.

• Whole-grain bread: Whole-grain bread is a healthy breakfast option as it is rich in fiber, vitamins, and minerals. It can help regulate blood sugar levels and keep you feeling full for longer periods of time. Pair it with some avocado, hummus, or peanut butter for added flavor and nutrients.

• Smoothies: Smoothies are a quick and easy breakfast option that can be customized to suit your taste and nutritional needs. They can be made with a variety of fruits, vegetables, and protein sources, such as Greek yogurt or protein powder.

     Starting your day with a healthy breakfast can provide you with the necessary nutrients and energy to power through the day. Incorporating foods such as oatmeal, eggs, Greek yogurt, fruits, nuts and seeds, whole-grain bread, and smoothies can help improve your overall health and well-being. 

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Remember to choose nutrient-dense foods and avoid highly processed and sugary options for the best results.

The Danger of Focusing on Superficial Qualities in the Quest for a High Value Man

    

    Within recent days I have viewing videos and podcasts by the God father himself the late great Sir Kevin Samuels. Mostly women tend to disagree with his approach in "His" show, which highlights the extremely unrealistic expectations of the modern day female.

    While it is important to note that not all women disagree with Mr Samuels Point of view, the majority are livid, and some have even expressed their gratitude now that he is no longer alive. It's a pity because many would rather live in the fantasy world of unrealistic expectations, rather than sober up and embrace reality.

    So here is my Point of view as to why it is very dangerous to focus on Superficial qualities in the quest for a "High Value" man.

     In the dating world, there's a concept known as the "high value man," which refers to a man who is considered desirable due to factors such as wealth, status, intelligence, charisma, and physical attractiveness. While the idea of a high-value man may be appealing to most women, it's important to recognize that this stereotype can be harmful and perpetuate unrealistic expectations in relationships. Which as the statistics will show lead many women to end their relationships.

    Firstly, the concept of a high-value man is based on subjective and often superficial qualities, such as wealth or physical appearance. By focusing solely on these external indicators of success or desirability, many women risk overlooking other important qualities that make for a healthy and fulfilling relationship, such as emotional intelligence, kindness, and mutual respect.

    Moreover, the term "high value" implies that men who possess these qualities are somehow better or more valuable than those who do not. This is an unfair and harmful stereotype that can contribute to toxic masculinity and an unhealthy view of self-worth. Men should be valued for their individual qualities and character, rather than their financial or social status. Sadly, in today's modern world many women would not even give a man a second look if he does not make at least six figures in income. Click here! for explanation.

    Furthermore, the idea of a high-value man can be damaging to women, as it suggests that they should prioritize these superficial qualities in a partner over other important factors, such as emotional connection and shared values. This can lead to a shallow and unfulfilling dating experience, where women are more concerned with finding a man who meets certain external criteria rather than finding a partner who truly understands and respects them. The reality is whenever or I should say if ever women do manage to date a "high value" man they end up realising that this is not what they want, then begin to brand all men as "Dogs" or other derogatory terms.

    Additionally, the concept of a high-value man can be exclusionary to those who do not meet these superficial criteria. Men who do not fit the stereotype of a high-value man may feel that they are not desirable or valuable, leading to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. Similarly, women who do not prioritize these external qualities (which is in the rare minority) may feel that they are not worthy of a high-value man, perpetuating harmful gender stereotypes and unrealistic expectations.

    In conclusion, the concept of a high-value man is an unfair stereotype that perpetuates unrealistic expectations and harmful gender stereotypes. By focusing solely on external indicators of success or desirability, we risk overlooking other important qualities that make for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Instead, we should prioritize emotional connection, mutual respect, and shared values in our relationships, and value individuals for their unique qualities and character rather than their financial or social status. By embracing a more inclusive and authentic view of dating and relationships, we can create a more fulfilling and satisfying dating experience for all.

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Divorce: Why are so many women Choosing to End their marriages?

     

    It is the month of love, and at the time of the writing of this blog post, millions of couples worldwide are actually preparing (right this very minute) to get married. Ahh! the thought of that gorgeous blushing bride waiting for you at the top of the isle, clutching here daddy's arm as your family and friends stand in support, all in the month of love.

    However in reality many a marriage is short lived with about more than half of all weddings ending in divorce. Is it due to the lack of marriage counselling? or is it due to other factors? While it might be that the male is the stronger of the sexes and surely he would be the one applying to end the marriage; it is the reverse that is alarmingly true. Yes, according the statistics listed by the law firm Wilkinson and Finkbeiner  there is a divorce every 2 minutes (the average time it takes for the wedding vows to be recited). That's scary, and what's even worse, the women are the chief proponents of this action.

    Divorce is a common phenomenon in the United States, affecting millions of families every year. In fact, according to recent studies, the divorce rate in the country hovers around 40 to 50 percent. What is particularly striking is that in a large number of these cases, it is the woman who initiates the divorce. In this blog post, we will explore the reasons why 80 to 90 percent of women in the United States apply for divorce.

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• Lack of emotional fulfillment: One of the biggest reasons for women seeking a divorce is the lack of emotional fulfillment in their marriages. Women crave emotional intimacy and connection, and when these needs are not met, they may begin to feel unfulfilled and unhappy in their marriages. With most men at work and trying to be the provider in the home. One can understand why women may feel the emotional detachment. This can lead to feelings of loneliness, isolation, and depression, ultimately pushing women to seek a divorce. However communication helps and if a compromise cannot be achieved, then the love of both parties for each other will have to be reexamined.

• Physical abuse: Physical abuse is another major reason why women seek a divorce. Domestic violence can take many forms, including physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. This type of abuse can leave women feeling scared, vulnerable, and trapped in their marriages. Many women who are victims of abuse choose to file for divorce as a means of escape and to protect themselves and their children. On the other hand, just to bring some balance to this point. Men aren't monsters. Understand that at one point these two individuals were in love, talking sweet nothings to each other. Physics explains to us that to every action there is an equal an opposite reaction. And to be clear i am not advocating for abuse in any way whatsoever. But could it be that physical abuse can also be caused by verbal abuse by women or actions like infidelity or other similar repeated action that can cause the man to lash out? Most, if not all women would not even admit to contributing to their physical abuse. They would all take the victim road which is unfortunate.

• Infidelity: Infidelity is another major reason why women seek a divorce. When a partner cheats, it can be a devastating blow to a woman's self-esteem and trust. The betrayal of infidelity can leave women feeling hurt, angry, and frustrated, and many choose to end their marriages as a result. Here is another very touchy subject. Again Im looking from the standpoint of two parties loving each other to the point that they want to spend the remainder of  their natural lives together. How does this untainted love evolve to the point of the man cheating? I think that it is grossly unfair to say that only men cheat in the relationship. And secondly, what causes a man to end up straying and going outside of the marriage after he stood and pledged his love and live to the female for good and bad, sickness and in health, for richer or poorer? While women uses these excuses to separate from the marriage, they are actually 50% responsible for the reported actions themselves.

• Differences in values and lifestyle: Differences in values and lifestyle can also lead to women seeking a divorce. As people grow and evolve, their values and beliefs may change, leading to conflicts in their marriages. Additionally, differences in lifestyle can create tension and stress in a relationship, ultimately pushing women to seek a divorce. Again here we  can deduce that communication is a major issue. Evolution in a marriage is inevitable and what is needed is both parties having the intestinal fortitude to talk about what they have grown to prefer and the love for each other to appreciate the new man/woman. The bible sets the precedence that two (2) cannot walk together unless they agree (Amos 3:3). Once the woman does not take the time to learn her man and to see things from his perspective, she initiating the divorce statistic will never change, and would grow even higher with every generation.

• Financial issues: Financial issues are another common reason for divorce. Money problems can create stress and conflict in a relationship, leading to a breakdown in communication and trust. Women may choose to file for divorce when financial problems become overwhelming and when they feel that their partner is not doing enough to address the issues. Here is another topic of high contention. but lets introduce the statistics here again. with 90% of college graduate women (those with degrees) applying for divorce. this means that these women are making a higher salary that the average woman. and in some cases even more money than their husbands. Could it be that these women have divorced their husbands because he was not making as much as they were? Or is it that they wanted him to cover their expenses, while he made significantly less money than her? Maybe women in this category can chime in as i am trying to understand the dynamic here. Again mutual respect, understanding, and communication is the issue here.
•  Personality Disorder: Personality disorders such as Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can significantly contribute to divorce due to the intense emotional instability and interpersonal difficulties often associated with the disorder. People with BPD may experience extreme mood swings, fear of abandonment, and difficulty regulating their emotions, leading to frequent conflicts in relationships. These emotional fluctuations can create a cycle of intense attachment followed by emotional withdrawal or hostility, making it challenging to maintain a stable, healthy partnership. Partners of individuals with BPD may feel overwhelmed by the unpredictability and emotional volatility, leading to feelings of exhaustion, frustration, and helplessness. Over time, these unresolved issues can erode trust and intimacy, ultimately contributing to the breakdown of the marriage. Without proper intervention, such as therapy and communication strategies, the relationship dynamics can become too strained, increasing the likelihood of divorce.  To learn more Click here

    It is important to note that these are just a few of the many reasons why women choose to seek a divorce. Every relationship and every situation is unique, and the reasons for divorce can vary greatly from one case to the next. However, it is clear that there are many factors that can contribute to women seeking a divorce, and it is important to be aware of these reasons in order to better understand and support those who are going through this difficult process.

     Divorce can be a complex and emotional process, but it is important to remember that it can also be a necessary step for many women to take in order to find happiness and fulfillment. If you or someone you know is considering divorce, it is important to seek support from friends, family, and professionals who can help guide you through the process. An honest and open minded look at the woman in the mirror would not hurt either.